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Thursday, May 21, 2009,6:52 AM

timing is everything?

it's funny how timing is everything. do u agree with me?

something happened today which quite startled me and then got me thinking at how fascinating things can sometimes turned out to be. i'm sure all of us have been through this very stage in our life where we had a crush on someone, that everything in life at that moment is about him/her.

here i'm going to talk about that cycle that somehow fascinates me.

in the beginning, you're so crazily in love it's like, you received a SMS and you hope it's from him/her, one word from him/her can make you think A LOT, finding all possible meanings to that simple sentence or word he/she said.. when he/she calls or texts, you're on cloud nine but when there's nothing (even if it's only for a few hours, not days) you feel like you're six feet underground.

then finally after months had passed, a normal friendship blooms into something else, something more intimate, but it's not the starting of a relationship YET. not so soon. but you at that time thought you're the happiest person on Earth. he/she talks to you everyday using sweet, flowery words.. it's just.. sweet. the horrifying part then came, when you're imagining you walking down the aisle with him/her, he/she just suddenly turned off the light and make your world went dark just like that! by telling you he/she isn't ready for commitment yet and later you found out that the truth is he/she is not over the ex yet.

i'm gonna cut short on the hurting part and get to the healing part cause i hate sadness. then when you're about to be able to stand on your feet again, here he/she comes telling you how much he/she loves you and how he/she is so ready to be committed to you. Haha!

but then you realised throughout the few months you've come to slowly forget about that intense feeling you had for him/her. you've even forgotten how excited you used to be when he/she texted, or how his/her words can make you feel dizzy. but however, he/she was the person you once loved so deeply, and so, you accepted his love and THOUGHT you could love him/her.

but like i said, timing is everything. things changed, you seek but couldn't find back that very feelings you had. and the funny thing is, everything that you once experienced last time, HE/SHE is experiencing them now. he/she waits for your SMS or call, think about you like how you think about him/her.. and then you wish..

"how nice if these are all happening few months ago?"

that's the wonder of time.

i'm not gonna say this is a story of mine, i'm just sharing it and from this, i realised and knew that opportunities don't come often and time and tide waits for no man.

人和人之间的 timing 真神奇。

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